To the girl who knows he’s talking to another girl,
Let me guess. He doesn’t know that you know. He doesn’t know that you’ve seen her text him. He doesn’t know that you’ve noticed he texts her.
He doesn’t know that you’ve read their conversation when he left his phone in the open. He doesn’t know that you’ve looked at the pictures that they’ve taken. He doesn’t know that you’re aware of them flirting with each other.
He doesn’t know that you’ve found out about all of those times they’ve hung out together. He doesn’t know how devastated you are inside. He doesn’t know how betrayed you feel deep down. He doesn’t know how hurt your heart is.
And here’s what you know. You know that if you ask him who she is, he’ll just say she’s just a friend. You know that if you confront him about it, he’ll just deny that there’s anything going on. You know that if you argue with him about it, he’ll just tell you lie after lie after lie.
You know that if you ask him to delete her or unfollow her, he’ll hesitate and refuse to do it. You know that if you ask him if he likes her, he’ll tell you he doesn’t and you’re the only one he wants. You know that if you ask him to leave her alone, he’ll be able to leave her alone for a little while and will eventually start talking to her again.
So, why are you still with him? Are you hoping that he’ll stop on his own? Are you waiting for him to come to his senses? Because honestly? They deserve each other. He’s talking to another girl knowing he isn’t single and she’s talking to him knowing that he’s taken. And just in case you feel like you lost him because she stole him from you? Don’t feel that way, because a loyal man never gets “stolen”
. A loyal man never lets a girl get in between him and his girl. A loyal man doesn’t get distracted and tempted. I’m sorry, but the truth is he stopped being yours the moment he decided to get involved with her.
What you need to do now, is realize that you’ll never be able to trust him the same way whether you stay or leave, but at least when you leave, he won’t be able to play you like a fool because he’ll be the fool for trying to find someone better when he was already with the best.
…. please know this.